Monday, May 9, 2022

Grady is Four!

Grady is FOUR today! I can hardly believe it. Here are some fun Grady facts!

1. He is 45 pounds, 3’7”, both 95th percentile, wearing size 5 clothes, size 11 shoes.




2. He sleeps from 7pm until 6:30-7am. 6:30 if school day and Molly Anne is up. 7:00 or later on weekend day. He still takes a nap every day for a couple of hours. Naps for life! 




3. He hasn’t met many food items that he won’t eat. He eats at least three breakfasts every day. He’s not as big into lunches. Then he’s back for a big dinner. 



4. He loves to play outside whether it’s in the backyard, biking, scooting, walking, all of the things!




5. So far he’s tried soccer through Soccer Shots and Teeball. He loves both. We will see what he asks to do in the fall! He’s getting back into swimming now at Charlotte Aquatics. 




6. He’s very complimentary of when Molly Anne or I look extra nice. He will tell us how pretty we are or if he likes our dress or whatever! Sweet boy!




7. He does not stop talking. Ever. I wonder where he gets that from. We talk alllll of the time. His favorite thing to start with these days is - “hey mama you know what?!”




8. Tractors are still his favorite interest but he loves all construction vehicles, fire engines, cool cars and trucks, monster trucks. He LOVES the beach. He likes to putt putt and do go karts down there. He basically likes anything you give him the opportunity to do. 


9. He is obsessed with Molly Anne. He looks up to her, is sweet to her and loves her so much. I can’t wait to watch their relationship grow over time. They’re pretty tight right now and I’m so thankful. 

When Grady was born, I always said if I can just get to when he turns four then life will definitely be easier. And he’s already four! I wasn’t wishing time away. I just think when children can talk, walk and eat by themselves, it makes things easier and more fun! 

But the time went so quickly. He’s growing right up to be such a nice little boy. We love him SO much! xo

Friday, May 6, 2022

Five on Friday

ONE:
We like to break up the week and go out for dinner every now and then. This week we did and went over to our club on Wednesday night. It was a lot of fun and we saw a bunch of people we knew. It's fun when it's like that. The food we got was super good too. I had this farro and asparagus salad with salmon, delish. I wore this dress (found here in XL and similar here) and got several compliments on it. Makes me wants to wear fun dresses more often! 



TWO:
These cuties ready for jazz class on Tuesday!



THREE:
Grady lost his beloved "D" for two nights this week and thankfully Poppa told me to check the pantry...a place where Grady is often. Guess what? He was right...D was in the pantry on a low shelf...aka Grady level. I took D back into him when he was asleep as promised if I found him.



FOUR:
Molly Anne is getting her hair cut today and she’s excited. This child’s hair is so thick (wonder where she gets that from!) and it’s the longest she’s ever had it. Swim team is coming up and she says we are going to chop it. We will see!


FIVE:
Molly Anne has been warming up for swim team for a couple of months at Charlotte Aquatics. Back to her old stomping grounds! Grady had a private lesson there yesterday to see where he stands since he was there in October. I don’t think they’ve ever been there together but they were yesterday and I loved it. But they loved it more. Shouting “hi Molly Anne” across the pool as Grady did! So cute. 


Hope y’all have a great weekend!!

Thursday, May 5, 2022

This Week - Dresses and Workout

Happy Cinco de Mayo!


Talk about a random post right?! But when I think about what I was looking for this week, this was it! Dresses and workout clothes! HA!

The detail on this dress is unreal. 


This dress caught my eye when I walked into the store during my lunch on Monday. 



This dress screams my name. I like that it won't be too short!



I'm oddly very excited about a neon yellow sports bra. I think it's a fun pop under a tank while playing tennis, running or walking the hood!



And yes, I ordered this tie dye shirt because it's my favorite style of short sleeve shirt right now and because I think it will be SO cute with white shorts. I size down in this and wear a 10. 



Wednesday, May 4, 2022

Life In Between

I turn 40 later this year and each year I still think I'm 25 years old living it up in downtown Charlotte, having just met Kevin, living in my new high rise condo and going out 5 nights a week. Life has definitely changed for the better especially when Molly Anne and Grady arrived!

A few weeks ago I was talking to one of my friends about being 40-ish and how it's such an interesting time of life. We have young children still and our parents are getting older. It’s also a time where I have a ton of responsibility at work after 17 years in the working world. 

Juggling all of that is hard. I live 8 hours from my parents. It’s not like I can just hop in a car weekly and help with appointments or other things. Like one of my coworkers told me - he felt like he hadn’t been a good caregiver to his parents. He ‘cared’ but he didn’t ‘give’ his time enough because of the distant. I feel this more and more as my parents get older and I’m in Charlotte with lots of moving parts.

Anyone else in this situation? Thankfully my parents have wonderful friends helping them out and I thank those friends but it doesn’t feel like enough. I wish I could wave a magic wand and get there in an hour. 

Do I wish they’d move closer to us for selfish reasons? Yes. Will they? Prob not! Their whole life is there and I get that. 

I’m just preaching to the choir. My parents already know all of this! Thought maybe someone else could relate.


Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Day In The Life

Thought it'd be fun to write a quick day in the life post to remember this time with Molly Anne in first grade and Grady in the 3's daycare! Of course this isn't exact and every day is different but this is generally a good way to remember our days!

6:06am - my alarm goes off and I get up and get ready...well just hair and makeup. Sometimes I snooze until 6:14am but not often because I like to be mostly ready when....

6:15am - Molly Anne's alarm goes off. She sets her alexa and it's pretty fantastic that she just gets right up on her own. I always lay her outfit out the night before and she gets herself ready. Little fun info that I didn't know until recently - you can set alexa to set an alarm for 6:15am for every week day. And done, no one has to remember to do that each night. 

6:30am - we tip toe downstairs and try not to wake Grady up but he usually comes downstairs about 5-10 minutes later. So then I end up making them both breakfast at the same time which honestly is pretty ideal so I quit getting upset with him for getting out of bed before 7am which is our standard rule....thanks to Moms on Call when they were little. haha! But I like being down there with her while she eats. We have good conversation and I just think it's a good way to set up her day.

no later than 7:05am - we are out the door to school. Grady usually comes with me to drop her off. Occasionally he's already dressed and fed but not always. He likes to go in his pajamas and get ready for his day when we come home and when I get dressed in my work clothes. 

7:10am - we get dressed and I get my junk for the day in the car

7:45am - we scoot to his school. 

8:30am - I get to my office or back home to work. Most of the time - to my office. Yes, we've been in the office since May 2020. We had about an 8 week break where we worked from home but then back to the office we went! I've always worked from home a day or two a week since I had Molly Anne. It keeps me sane. 

work work work work. calls calls calls calls.

2pm - Julie picks Molly Anne up from school and keeps her until 4pm. Julie is a retired Kindergarten teacher and is absolutely wonderful. I have no idea how we got so lucky but whew I'm thankful for Julie daily. They do homework and Julie even unpacks and repacks Molly Anne's lunch. I'm telling you...lifesaver! Molly Anne's homework takes anywhere from 30-90 minutes. Yep, lots of reading, math, word study. She's killed it on the homework front this year and has grown from it. 

3pm - I typically leave anywhere around 3/4pm to head to get Grady then home to run them to afterschool activities. Kevin or I are always home by 4, sometimes earlier, to relieve Julie. 

4pm - Grady is doing swim and teeball right now. Molly Anne is doing swim and jazz. Earlier this year she was also tumbling on Mondays...that's when she wasn't swimming. I'm typically a max of two activities per child. That ebbs and flows depending on seasons. Teeball is a big commitment!

I’m also still working here and there. My phone never stops though I’m conscious about my time with my people. Pros and cons about what I do! It never leaves. It is all of the time. 

5:30pm - dinner! Early bird special. We typically always eat at home during the week. It's never anything fancy. I prep for dinner that morning while they kids are eating or the night before.

6pm - we have been doing some after dinner walks/scoots/bike rides and I've loved doing that with the kids and Mills! Special times. We talk about alllll of the things and it's a good way to end the day. 

6:30pm - baths, reading

7pm - bed for the little friends. Mills usually goes upstairs at this point and won't come back down to hang out with me anymore. He's lazy!

7:30pm - After cleaning up the house, I open my computer back up or I workout most nights - either tennis, walk the hood, strength in our home gym, something. It's hard to do but I know how much I better I feel after getting it done. 

8:30/9pm - I sit on the couch for about an hour and catch up on things. 

10pm - goodnight!

Honestly things have gotten so much easier the older the children have gotten. With Grady about to turn 4, it's really a lot easier to do things. I can take a shower when they're playing. They can go out back by themselves while I make dinner. They entertain themselves in the playroom. Molly Anne can take her own bath and get dressed on her own. Grady is almost there on the getting dressed part. It's really amazing I must say. I never thought I'd see the day! There were some hard years there. Don't get me wrong, not every day is amazing but I remember when I held Grady for 23 hours a day. Not really but sort of haha! All of this to say - it does get easier! 

I feel like our crew is in a decent little phase now and I'm thankful for every day!

Monday, May 2, 2022

Weekend

We had a nice little weekend and hope you did too!

Friday night we met one of my dear friends that I grew up with and her family at Brixx for dinner. It was fun and great to catch up. We love hanging with them!


Saturday morning cuddles. Then I went to a tennis clinic for an hour and a half. It was perfect weather and I enjoyed playing with the three girls that were out there for it. 


Kevin took Molly Anne to chess club. Grady and I even got to watch for a few minutes before we headed to his teeball game. 


Grady took a big nap and Molly Anne and I went next door to swim then Kevin and Grady joined us. 


We grilled out and the kids had popscicles. Felt like summer!


Mills laid down while Charley went wild. Typical. I can’t even get a pic of Charley because she moves so quickly!


Silly Grady!


Sunday we didn’t do much other than getting to go to Greer’s sixth birthday party next door! Hilary had a horse come for pony rides. It was super cute!





Happy Monday! It’s teacher appreciation week at Grady’s school so I’m wild with that! Chat soon. 

Friday, April 29, 2022

Four on Friday

ONE:
Got to play tennis on Tuesday night at a local club, Raintree, where my friend plays. She was sweet to come over and watch after her match. Hi Heather! :)



TWO:
Two peas in a little pod...they were walking out of dance like this and so cute arguing about who loves who the most! May they always do this!!!



THREE:
Who else learned how to braid when they were younger from their American Girl dolls?!



FOUR:
When you and your coworker dress alike by accident one day, it creates quite the stir in the office. Then you decide it would be hilarious to do it on purpose and really mess with the guys minds!! We laughed so hard about this all week. It’s the little things people!