My Mom passed away on Thursday, June 4th at 5:58am. I hate dementia. She has had a tough go of lots of health issues over the years. She is finally at peace and with her brother and parents. But gosh we miss her deeply. My poor Dad! He was the best husband and caregiver to her. In sickness and in health they said!
We are planning a nice service and after party. She wouldn't want us moping around. She'd say, "bring on the champagne and have a party" so we going to try to do that too to celebrate her precious life! 
This was a great evening at Oyster Rock!
I'll be back but give me a week or two. She loved reading my blog and would want me to keep on keepin' on. Hug or call your Mama if she's still here.
I've enjoyed reading your blog and my deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom.
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry to hear this. Take care <3
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about your mother. Praying for you, your dad and family.
ReplyDeleteI’m so very sorry to read about your loss. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry to hear this news. I've always enjoyed your blog as well as it reminds me so much of myself when I was younger. We have many things in common - female engineer, mom to a daughter & son, working and balancing career and parenthood, etc.. Even your parents remind me so much of my own. I appreciate you sharing your adventures with us over the years. Thinking of you, your dad, your brother, and all who loved your mom as you grieve this tremendous loss.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest condolences to you and your family, especially your sweet Dad, who was the best caregiver.
ReplyDeleteI was saddened to read this news. While I only know you through your blog, your posts about your mom have meant a great deal to many readers, including me. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and best wishes for comfort and peace in the days ahead.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with your dad, you, and your family.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all and sending love and prayers of comfort and peace.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about your mom.
ReplyDeleteI’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in April after a brief illness and it’s so hard. Spend time with your family and take the time you need.
ReplyDeleteMoms are the glue! This is such a hard thing to go through but your attitude is spot on. Carry on and celebrate her the way she would have wanted
ReplyDeleteMy heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your mom.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. My dad passed away with dementia, and it is one of the most heart-breaking diseases. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Even when we know they led a wonderful life it is so hard to let them go. I will pray for you and your sweet family.
ReplyDeleteIn Judaism we say "May her memory be a blessing." I loved reading about your relationship with your parents over the years. So sorry for your loss!
ReplyDeleteLongtime blog reader - I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending best wishes to you and your lovely family.
ReplyDeleteOh Beth, I'm so sorry. Your mom has graced your blog with such an elegant presence through the years and her beatiful living legacy lives on through you and your children, especially Molly Anne who bears a striking resemblence! It is so, so difficult to lose a parent but I can imagine that losing a loved one to dementia is especially difficult because of the toll it takes on family and caregivers. God bless your dad. I will be thinking of you all and praying for peace and strength in the days, weeks and months ahead. Take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteHi. I don't really know you from Adam, but I enjoy reading your blog because I live in the Charlotte ares. Although I am bit older than you, I have two children and our lives mirror quit a bit. I am just a bit ahead of you. :) I wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear about your mother. Losing your mother is one of the hardest things in life. I lost mine suddenly in 2013. And although it changes you as a person, you will heal and you will go on. You will create a wonderful, happy home for your children like your mother did for you and your brother. Love that sweet daddy of yours while you can. My prayers and positive thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteA long time reader. Sending my love and support to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm a long time reader. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm so very for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. I've been reading your blog for quite a while, and whenever you shared little glimpses of her, her sweetness and warmth always came through. We're currently on a journey with dementia, so I know how tough it is. My prayers are with you.
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